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Senin, 07 Januari 2013

Parents Advice, In Educating Children


Adolescence adalaha future psychological development of the child to be a child who was growing up, commonly known by the transition from the extended to the children become adults. These periods usually despise teenagers imitate the style or stile admired so greatly needed in this guidance from parents to teenagers not one style that can make the order for his future.
But mostly people do not know the parents in educating their teenagers do not know what possessed her talent that her talent was terkandas the fault of the parents. By him it was following a few mistakes parents in educating their teenagers:
1. Wrong perception
Often parents instilled a false perception about yourself also in the perception of self keberhargaan their children either consciously attau not aware of its influence psychological growth of children. When parents teach a wrong perception to the child, that's when the real parents were planting mines psychological minefield that can explode at any time.
Wrong perception as if that is frequently and unwittingly parents do to their children ..? A small example, many parents who force their children to be good at everything. It is a source of pride and self keberhargaan for parents if their children have above average achievement friends other friends.
Parents often think poorly of the boys who express negative emotions, parents often ask their children not to make mistakes even by parents asking for help is wrong and shameful.
Like a time bomb, a child not only needs attention, praise and reprimands. The balance of it will make the child feel loved and be loved. But unfortunately because of busy jobs and routines many parents let their children grow up by itself so that when problems arise then the parents are busy trying to be a good parent or bijaksanana.
Busyness parents sometimes make them no time for their children, there is no time to accompany learning, even when there was no longer joking. Even sometimes forget to appreciate her achievement, only when children make mistakes, parents busy paying attention and wise ass.
2. Not Consistent
Trap is a common problem when the parents are no longer consistent in parenting. Parents have berbgai kinds of reasons to justify his inconsistency against children. Whatever the reason, the lack of variation prolem konsintenan can enlarge the behavior of their children. Then came the question of questions at me, "Which is better children grow up in a family of authoritarian or permissive ...? Actually the most important is the existence of rules that can be predicted and consistent.
3. Closed communication
Communication is the thing or the most important factor in caring for and educating their children. If children think that they can talk to their parents about their feelings and their lives, if they succeed or fail when it could and was able to communicate openly to their parents, so they would be owned and cared for. So that the children will feel meaningful to themselves also their parents.
4. Problem solver
Many children and adolescents is now a member of the generation confused, if you want to trace the background of their care, it is usually found that their parents were mostly serves as a problem solver for their children. As a result, their children had over-provided and life becomes passive. So what are the reasons parents become problem solver ..? Classic reason is parents want their children happy, the parents do not want their children to experience problems in her life.
5. There is no example
Often parents use the techniques in building and educating young children with a way to rule, ask their children to do what he says, but it is equally important example exert a very strong and positive. Children need to be an example, and not by orders. A small example, many parents hope their children smarter, then the parents instruct their children to learn any and all costs. Maybe by example and take her learning will be different, because the acceptance of child shall be felt herself diperhatiakan parents.
6. Select the time to play with the children
As an adult, sometimes parents forget how to be a child. Many parents are caught up in the bustle of day to day to make a living and pay the mortgage, but many parents forget that children also need to play. Children need to fantasize and develop their creativity. Do not borrow children with a wide range of tutoring throughout the week. His intentions are good but not necessarily the way he's right, sometimes undesirable tutoring children do not solve the problems it has created more problems for the child.
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